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Wear it your way. Shop strap-on harnesses with adjustable straps, or slip into harness briefs and boxers for an underwear-style fit. Options include interchangeable O-rings, soft fabric and pockets for a bullet vibrator, so you can choose the details that suit your plans. Vinyl bodysuits and costume accessories bring another side of fetish wear into the mix.

Start with your waist or hip measurement and the harness's stated fit, then check its ring size and what comes included. Pair your choice with Strap-On Dildos, matching the toy's base and dimensions to the harness's requirements.

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Frequently asked questions

Should I choose a strap harness or harness underwear?
A strap harness lets you adjust the straps around your waist or hips and legs. Harness briefs and boxers offer an underwear-style alternative. The Strap-On Boxer Shorts have no buckles and include hidden bullet pockets, while the Lush harness has four-way adjustable straps.
How do I choose the right harness size?
Use the measurement named for that harness: waist and hip measurements are not interchangeable. For example, the XS/S Strap-On Boxer Shorts fit a 28–32-inch waist, while the Lush harness adjusts up to 60-inch hips. Choose by the listed measurements rather than the size label alone.
Does a strap-on harness come with a dildo?
Do not assume one is included. The Lush and Flamingo Low Rise harnesses explicitly exclude a dildo. The Strap-On Boxer Shorts do not list a dildo as included. Check the contents of your chosen harness before buying a toy to pair with it.
Can I change the O-ring to fit a different toy?
Some harnesses include interchangeable rings. The Lush harness comes with rubber O-rings measuring 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inches in diameter. Match both the toy's dimensions and its base to the harness's stated requirements.
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Are there plus-size harness options?
Yes. The Sportsheets Beginners Strap On Plus Size has four-way adjustable straps, lists sizes 12–30 and adjusts up to 72-inch hips. It also includes interchangeable rubber O-rings and a channel for a bullet vibrator.
Is a bullet vibrator included with the harness?
The Vibrating Black Velvet Strap On includes a bullet vibrator and a pocket to hold it. The Strap-On Boxer Shorts have bullet pockets, but a vibrator is not listed as included. A pocket alone does not mean a vibrator comes in the box.
Are there harnesses for holding a packer?
Yes. The Packer Gear Boxer Brief Harness has an internal strap to secure a packer and internal pockets for a stimulator. Check the fit and contents of the particular size you choose; the harness name does not mean a packer is included.
Can I choose a harness without leather?
Yes. The Flamingo Low Rise harness is described as vegan-friendly and uses leatherette and metal. The Fetish Fantasy Elite Universal Beginners Harness uses nylon straps, a neoprene-backed vinyl body and a silicone O-ring.
Can I put my harness in the washing machine?
The Lush harness is listed as machine washable. Follow the care instructions for your particular harness, since fabric, straps and hardware can require different care.
Is Fetish Wear only for strap-on harnesses?
No. The collection also includes vinyl bodysuits, garter sets and costume accessories such as a vinyl cat mask. Shop Costumes if you want to build a fuller roleplay outfit.